We all have Fears and Expectations in relationships . But we sometimes get disappointed.

We are all afraid of getting hurt we don’t want to let others see how much they hurt us. We are scared of ourselves. Letting yourself be cheated out of a good relationship at times is because we are afraid to let go of the past. The past has a choke hold on us. We are like a 🌹 rose beautiful on the outside to anyone seeing it. Admired for it’s beauty. But we seldom forget it’s thorns 🌹 🌹 until we try picking up the rose and then we get stung . Every smiling face has a grieving heart. We just don’t let it show. Pains are a maturity period. They are steps we must take to get a better understanding of ourselves and our relationships. Hence it is to remind oneself of the good stuff when ever we are feeling blue. It’s a phase it would pass. Being hurt, cheated on, dumped , betrayed is learning process. We would come out stronger if we hold on and believe that my best is yet to come.